well, ive sent it- have a look and if not i'll buy some bloody stamps!
termite 35
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termite 35
Hey Mark!what did the signs say ?!And just how big were they?!I don't understand the email trouble at all I sent you two the day we left; and one yesterday too;thankyou, we had an amazing time-and will be dowwn again soon-check all your email accounts...The beach is incredible is'nt it?we were there on sat;my hubby fell in love with it so much we're going to stay there in one of the cottages.I'm waiting for test results;and will come dowwn again to sort my head out...can't think of a better place to do it-did'nt make Trebah- but wanted to;what a great place to be born-I want to end my days lying on grass in a garden,preferably Glendurgan, when there's no one else there.Thanks for all your efforts; but as I said ,hubby hates this site( and anyone on it )so,it's difficult to meet with anyone ,as much as i'd like to...he dos,nt understand the void all this crap leaves you with and i'm tired of trying to explain; which is why I only come on so late at night..I'm so sorry about the email mix ups-i've sent so many...I don't know what i'm doing wrong-when I test by sending them to myself they work-are you sure your addys are right
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A Personal Announcement!
by Billygoat inguess who just got engaged???
no date has been set yet, but the engagement will be short.
probably sometime this summer.
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termite 35
This is such a happy thread!i just cried!!!!you sound SO excited ;it's just bursting through the screen!I needed that,you made my day;CONGRATULATIONS xxxxx
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We got DF'd/ Assoc. Press called
by ARoarer inwell we got the phone call from the elder to let us know of the decision to disfellowship us.
the one elder called while the other sat on the phone as a "witness".
the second elder was once a close friend.
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termite 35
Barbara;love to you all and thankyou.I ,too,find something especially comforting in the gentlness and strength of horses,they blow away any negative thoughts and make me feel so alive;and when they return your love it's incredibly healing and very powerful-perhaps they're food at the proper time?!-stay happy XX
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I need to say something
by Soledad inimo and in my experience i think that sexual harassment is common among witnesses, and much like the victims of molestation the congregation elders usually cover up the actions of some or just totally ignore the allegations.
i was subjected to it often by an ms and an elder's brother, when i complained to my mother about it her response was 'well they have known you since you were born, and they didn't mean any harm' or something along those lines.
i dont wish to downplay the seriousness of pedophilia as opposed to sexual harassment, nonetheless, to all those lurking witnesses out there you all should know that these things can happen and does happen everyday, whether you care to admit to it or not.
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termite 35
Poor you xxIt's so frustrating is'nt it?I've had to cope with four 'attacks'of different degrees by different people from ages 12- 20;but noone who knows me knows;except one...while I agree with what you feel, I also know from experience how difficult it is to report it.When it's people you know it's SO difficult.It's hard to explain- but I felt I would be destroying other peoples' perception of them.Sounds crazy dos'nt it?When you're young you want the whole world to be ok- anything like this is so horrific it's almost to bad to admit to yourself... I feel some wrongly misinterperate that as it having not affected you 'enough' to make a fuss.How wrong they are;the org. has to realise that by promoting their org as 'one big happy family' it make reporting so hard for children-as if they're destroying paradise themselves...odd; but just a reaction to some thing that's so uncomprehensible to a young mind...Also,it's the thought that others, even your own family will look at you differently; if they believe you... and even at a young age you KNOW that there's a chance you may not be believed..It's a totally nowin situation for the innocent party; one incident was my brothers' best friend- but I did,nt want my brother to LOOK at me differently... so I did'nt 'tell' this will only probably make sense to someone like soledad...but what I think i'm saying is that the org HAS to STOP calling EVERYONE in the halls Auntie and Uncle etc as this infers ?TRUST and makes the child feel less able to 'tell'
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invisible -you have mail -well, possibly...
by termite 35 ini sent you one before i left and have just emailed you now i'm back- did you get it?
i think i'm destined to live in a silent cyber hell for eternity..........?
tell me it worked and i'm not the completely incompetant crappy-at-computers human being i've always suspected i was all along.. hellllooooooo anyone there.................................................................................................................................................................................?help?
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termite 35
Email waiting for you- i have new -found cyber confidence¬!
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invisible -you have mail -well, possibly...
by termite 35 ini sent you one before i left and have just emailed you now i'm back- did you get it?
i think i'm destined to live in a silent cyber hell for eternity..........?
tell me it worked and i'm not the completely incompetant crappy-at-computers human being i've always suspected i was all along.. hellllooooooo anyone there.................................................................................................................................................................................?help?
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termite 35
HELLO!At last!Did'nt you get any then?I can't understand it at all- i'll email you in a minute,9th time lucky eh?!
WHAT did you leave me at the Cove bar?I was there every day!I didnt spot anything,where did you leave it?I was staying in the 'posh' estate ,and I was on the beach every day; there was a little boy called Tiger who made friends with my son;they played footie together; who's dad owned the beach cafe/ shop thing; the one who has an army jeep...I was trying to fly my kite ,walking and sketching.I went to Glendurgan and Durgan beach-what a fabulous place- I fell in love with it.Well, I fell in love with all of it;even Asda in Falmouth where they make you pizzas with anything you want on them!The bluebells were incredible;I should get my photos back soon;Eden project too;I took photos of everything I did'nt have time to paint; the weather was amazing,I love it all;I'm coming back really soon,the nights were so BLACK and quiet-heaven....xxxI sent emails to both your addresses- explain the signs you left- were they cards,on beer mats or sand messages?! -
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invisible -you have mail -well, possibly...
by termite 35 ini sent you one before i left and have just emailed you now i'm back- did you get it?
i think i'm destined to live in a silent cyber hell for eternity..........?
tell me it worked and i'm not the completely incompetant crappy-at-computers human being i've always suspected i was all along.. hellllooooooo anyone there.................................................................................................................................................................................?help?
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termite 35
hi lisa!Today is a much better day!A guy in a car hit the kerb just now as he drove past me;he has no street cred now-but he made my day,bless him!
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invisible -you have mail -well, possibly...
by termite 35 ini sent you one before i left and have just emailed you now i'm back- did you get it?
i think i'm destined to live in a silent cyber hell for eternity..........?
tell me it worked and i'm not the completely incompetant crappy-at-computers human being i've always suspected i was all along.. hellllooooooo anyone there.................................................................................................................................................................................?help?
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termite 35
Brilliant. Now the words have s-p-r-e-a-d- themselves across the page
like bloody Bambi legs.
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invisible -you have mail -well, possibly...
by termite 35 ini sent you one before i left and have just emailed you now i'm back- did you get it?
i think i'm destined to live in a silent cyber hell for eternity..........?
tell me it worked and i'm not the completely incompetant crappy-at-computers human being i've always suspected i was all along.. hellllooooooo anyone there.................................................................................................................................................................................?help?
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termite 35
I sent you one before I left and have just emailed you now i'm back- did you get it? I think i'm destined to live in a silent cyber hell for eternity..........? Tell me it worked and i'm not the completely incompetant crappy-at-computers human being I've always suspected I was all along.
Hellllooooooo anyone there.................................................................................................................................................................................?help?